DEAR Parents..

1. Don't spoil me. I know quite well that I ought not to have all I ask for. I'm only testing you
2. Don't be afraid to be firm with me. I prefer it, it makes me feel secure.
3. Don't let me form bad habits. I have to rely o you to detect them in early stages. 
4. Don't make me feel smaller than I am. it only makes me behave stupidity "big"
5. Don't correct me in front of people if you can help. I'll take much more notice you talk quietly with me in private.
6. Don't make me feel that my mistakes are sins. it upset my sense of values.
7. Don't protect me from consequences. I need to learn the painful way sometimes.
8. Don't be too upset when I say " I HATE YOU" . Sometimes it isn't you I hate but your power to thwart me.
9. Don't take too much notice of my small ailments. Sometime they get me the attention I need.
10. Don't nag. If you do, I shall have to protect myself by appearing deaf.
11. Don't forget that I cannot explain myself as well as I should like. That is why I am not always accurate.
12. Don't put me off when I ask question. If you do, you will find that I stop asking and seek my information elsewhere.
13. Don't be inconsistent. That completely confuses me and makes me lose faith in you
14. Don't tell me my fears are silly. They are terribly real and you can do much to reassure me if you try to understand.
15. Don't ever suggest that you are perfect or infallible. It gives me too great a shock when I discover that you are neither.
16. Don't ever think that it is beneath your dignity to apologize to me. An honest apology makes me feel surprisingly warm towards you.
17. Don't forget that I love experimenting. I couldn't get along without it, so please put up with it.
18. Don't forget how quickly I am growing up. It must be very difficult for you to keep pace with me, but please do try.
19. Don't forget that I don't thrive without lots of love and understanding, but I don't need to tell you, do I ?
20. Please keep yourself fit and healthy. I need you.